This post has to begin with a disclaimer.
These are my opinions.
Agree with me.
Don't agree with me.
You are allowed your opinions!
Since your still reading I guess you want to hear mine.
My youngest child who has a bit of a dramatic side, (she is 11) has heard from an early age not to come to me and say "That thing (whatever it is) hurt me." I cringe when my kids have friends over and they say something to that affect. What I am trying to teach my kids is to own their actions, mistakes, achievements etc.... "That doorway didn't trip you honey, you weren't paying attention to what you were doing and you tripped. "
It is important at all ages we own our actions.
Good or Bad.